YSunday, January 28, 2007
A secret will be out....SOON.
Anyhow, i am so looking forward to new things in my life. I guess im just the type of person who's never afraid of letting things happen in an outburst. I used to plan every minute of my life. Like before i go out of the house, i make sure that the things im usin' that day are lined up accordingly, or if im really havin' a big day i make sure that my outfit for that occassion is ready the night before.
Yep, that's me.
Two weeks ago, i had a chance to sit down and talk to Lola. She just turned 91 that night, we threw a party for her. And the old fart enjoyed it i guess. So here it goes, she told me life shouldn't be planned at all. You should let things happen. She told me that if you are stiff and scared to let things happen out of your watch, then you're missin out so much fun. Enjoyable things happen when you least expect it.
Now, i ask you, would you take a statement of a 91 y.o ulyanin lola? For me, the answer is yes.
And besides, pabalik na sya, tayo papunta pa lang. If you know what i mean.
At my age, i have learned few good things that i need to share. I need you to ponder on this...
1. Never try to please everyone.
Even though you're like a saint. You can never please all the people around you. Some will def hate you for certain things. And it is a fact.
2. Spend time wisely.
Use every minute of it to your advantage.
3. You are your own competititon.
That bitch next to you might be 99.9% good lookin than you are. But come to think of it. You are you. You have the power to change your looks just by going to a salon and stuff yourself friends who are less attractive compared to you. hehe
4. Be sure to be engaged 6 mos before marrying your significant other.
You sure wanna be married to someone who knows how many smiles you have and be able to describe when you use each of those ( like in the movie win a date with Tad Hamilton ).
5. Dogs are loyal.
Marry your dog. :)
6. Love your job.
But come on, if your job doesn't love you back. Then you better be ready with that resignation letter anytime soon. And please have a graceful exit.
7. Friends come and go.
You don't have the power to change the fact that your life is like a coffee shop. Some will stay for awhile, some will be out sooner than you know, and some will love the coffee taste they'd be around forever. Well i had this quote from a good friend of mine, Ice B.
A true friend is someone who knows you're good egg, even if you're a little cracked.
8. Some good things never last.
Remember your first love? Well that's the least you can do. You can never have it back.
A memory of true love is like a favorite song; no matter how many times it plays again, you never get tired of it.
9. Your ex partners will move on with their lives. And there's nothing you can do about it.
So you can quit snoopin' around their friendster profiles! ( Didja hear that, Marti? )
10.This is a general rule for all the men out there.
Never give your woman your credit card.
On a second thought, i should've omitted rule # 10.
*Jc, you're not readin, are you? wink*
11. Have a healthy diet.
For pete's sake, don't starve yourself. Chel told me i shouldn't take rice out of my diet program.
12. Not all men want a skinny woman.
Yesterday, Noel made a good point tellin' me i'm not fat! Thanks , Noel. You brought me back to my sanity. hehe
14. <---- Skip the unlucky number.
15. Shop till you drop.
Be sure you dont own a credit card. tee-hee.
*singing_mode* why spend mine? when i can spend yours... Giuchie, Giuchie, ya ya dada (Hey hey hey)
Giuchie, Giuchie, ya ya here (here)
Mocha Chocalata ya ya (oh yea)
Creole lady Marmalade
16. Being broken hearted is like havin a broken pair of limbs. On the outside it looks like there's nothing wrong, but every breath fuckin' hurts...
This is what i have on the list so far. I hope you guys learned something from this. Time to go back to work now.
'Till then peeps...
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